being a lesbian kpop fan.
I feel so uncomfortable being a lesbian kpop fan.
Mostly, because there is a lot of homophobia in Korea, so it’s just awkward loving some celebrity who would think I’m disgusting or something because of my sexuality.
Then, the other kpop fans. It ticks me off whenever I see fangirls go “If ____ was a girl I’d go lesbian for him!” - no, you wouldn’t. It just feels uncomfortable.
And well, it feels lonely. I have never met any other lesbian kpop fan.
Lastly, I’ve been bashed because I am a lesbian. I am a fan of this boy group and some fans have told me I’m not a “real fan” because I don’t “love them enough”.
Stuff like this annoys me and makes me insecure. That is why I’ve been considering to leave the kpop fandom.
S!B1: I’ve been a victim of cyber-bullying because of my sexual orientation and I don’t want to go over it again.
S!B2: no1curr.
Also, please excuse me if I made any grammar mistakes. English isn’t my first language.
OVER HERE HELLO PLEASED TO MEET YOU I’M FINE THANK YOU AND YOU?!
Can I get a big queer reblog train going on this for solidarity and also maybe this submitter will see it?
LOL, I thought half of the international K-pop fandom was made of queers. We blur so many sexuality lines it’s not funny. Seriously, you can les out all you want, especially on tumblr. I do, and nobody says anything to me about it. *shrugs*. And loving someone/some group isn’t always about wanting to be with them or have sex with them.
I can’t relate 100% because I’m bi and not lesbian, but you should definitely be able to find a good queer Kpop family on tumblr, or at least those who don’t curr.
